Glamour magazine named Merryn Woman of the Year 2012, and People magazine named her one of fifteen women changing the world and a HEROES Among us in 2013.[9]. There is a misconception about this issue many people think sexual abuse only happens to the poor, to people who come from broken homes, etc. will then mail or hand the parents or responsible adult family member the Megans Law information. Thirty-seven states have passed Erins Law and Merryn has tried three times in seven years to get the bill passed in Ohio. My sister and I told our parents the next day (and) we were referred to the Children's Advocacy Center by police detectives to be interviewed. Erin's Law, named after Erin Merryn, has passed in 36 states and is pending in the other 14. Should someone have known something was wrong sooner? By speaking up even when family is against the idea, it is freedom for a survivor and allows them to reclaim a piece of their lives back. Partly cloudy. Merryn: My resilience took a lot of psychological help growing up as a kid, teen, and young adult. Lawmakers are in the dark about this. The voice that was silenced for so long. Again, she was told to keep quiet, that no one would believe her if she said anything and that she had no proof. I found myself locked in bedrooms, basements, bathrooms, a car, garage and repeatedly assaulted by my cousin.. It would be many more years until that voice would become the strong, confident woman that I have become. What factors came together for you to be able to not only overcome what happened, but to also thrive? Two days later, their cousin was brought into the police station. Alaska Dispatch: Let's talk about two words we hear a lot when covering sexual abuse stories: victim and survivor. In 2013 Governor Quinn signed Erins Law mandating child sexual abuse education in all Illinois public schools. MORE: Moms and dads, can we talk about stranger danger? Erin Merryn (Author) Format: Kindle Edition See all formats and editions Kindle $12.99 Read with Our Free App Paperback $16.10 35 Used from $2.70 5 New from $12.50 Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. I had all the warning signs of an abused kid -- labeled behavior(ally) and emotionally disturbed, given an IEP (Individual Education Plan) for that behavior, I had anger problems, put my hand through a window weeks after being raped at 7 years old and threw tantrums on the floors in school. Visit Amazon.au's Erin Merryn Page and shop for all Erin Merryn books. The case never went to trial, and Brian received some counseling, but no punishment. Learn More. February 7, 2023 by Cindy Erin Merryn is a Global Advocate for Child Sex Abuse Prevention For years, Erin Merryn was too scared to speak up about sexual abuse. The only difference is now I am running from him in my dreams" (Merryn 49). 35. She explained to her cousin that she didnt want to publish it out of revenge, rather to help the millions of other sexual assault survivors. After years as a teen struggling with nightmares and flashbacks of my abuse, attempting suicide, self-injury, etc., I decided to use that voice to confront my abuser For seven months we corresponded in letters. "I just stared at the ceiling waiting for it to end." CBS News' Reena Ninan visited a public school in Illinois to see how the school teaches kids about safe . 2022 Anchorage Daily News. Check out pictures, bibliography, and biography of Erin Merryn Our Spectrum News app is the most convenient way to get the stories that matter to you. In Living for Today, readers find that Erin cultivated the strength to face her abuser . I wouldn't have quit my job four years ago as a master's level counselor to go after this had I not been lead by the Lord. Erins Law is a tax-exempt 501(c)(4) non-profit organization. The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County Illinois. After enduring a childhood filled w. For so many years I stayed angry and bitter towards him. That's where, 14 years ago, a then-13-year-old Erin Merryn first . I pull out my sixth grade DARE card and tell lawmakers I knew the eight ways to say "no" to drugs and have never tried even a cigarette and I am nearly 30 years old. They talked for hours about what had happened, and the next day told their parents about their shared horror. In 2014 People magazine named her one of fifteen women changing the world along with Oprah and Hillary Clinton. "Alabama needs this law because just like everywhere else in America . Pat Quinn on Thursday signed a new law extending sexual abuse education in Illinois schools. Her name is Erin Merryn and she is the founder of Erins Law. After it was republished by Health Communications in early 2005, she began traveling the nation telling her story about the sexual abuse she endured at hundreds of high schools, colleges, sexual assault centers, child abuse conferences and community events. Winds NW at 5 to 10 mph. Merryn saidif parents are not comfortable, the bill allows parents toopt their kids out of the education. Merryn says starting when she was six, she was sexually abused by a neighbor, then at 11 by an older cousin. While the party was going on, and my friend's mom was in the house, this neighbor cornered me in a bathroom and abused me. Erin has been traveling state to state testifying to lawmakers to pass Erin's law for 7 years. Erin Merryn is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, An Unimaginable Act, Bailey No Ordinary Cat, and The Diary of a Cat Named Carrot. From the age of 11 to 13, I was repeatedly sexually abused at the hands of a family member, an older cousin, she said. Chris Newlin - National Children's Advocacy Center She didn't want to stop visiting her friend but tried to find times when Richard wasn't around. Someone should have known in my earlier years when I was being abused by an adult neighbor. Since going public 10 years ago, I have had no contact with him. In it, Erin chronicles how she cultivated the strength to face her abuser and eventually found relief from years of emotional restlessness, while also igniting the beginnings of a new fearless journey. Merryn (whose other books are Stolen Innocence and Living for Today), the mother of a toddler girl, says this is a conversation parents must have every year and often. After graduating with Bachelors and Masters Degrees in social work from Western Illinois and Aurora Universities in 2008 and 2009, Health Communications published her second book, Living for Today: From Incest and Molestation to Fearlessness and Forgiveness. [7] She published her diary detailing her cousin's abuse and her own recovery, relapse and reconciliation in book form as Stolen Innocence in 2005. Here's How We Amplify It | National Children's Alliance", "Erin Merryn Fights for Law to Help Child Sexual Assault Victims", "Erin's Law: When the Abuser Is No Stranger", "State Senate Passes Erin Merryn's Law Aimed at Child Sex Abuse Prevention", "Survivor Recalls Alleged Incest in Book", "Child Sexual Abuse Survivor Gets Law Passed", https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Erin_Merryn&oldid=1132623568, Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike License 3.0, This page was last edited on 9 January 2023, at 19:15. My question to hotel or motel management would be, Why not tell? Erin Merryn, A Voice for the Voiceless. He was free, but the rage inside Erin remained. She is an activist against child sexual abuse as well as the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety in order to prevent child sexual abuse. After an evening of playing with Ashley's dollhouse and watching The Little Mermaid, the girls went to bed in Ashley's room. Requiring personal body safety education in public schools. Alaska Dispatch: Would something like what you are proposing -- Erin's Law -- have helped you? Merryn cautions that you can never just go by how many registered sex offenders are in your area. The bill had already passed the House . You will be believed.. However, during the hearing Tuesday,Ohio State Sen. Sandra OBrien, R-Ashtabula, told Merryn that whileshe was sorry about what happened to her,there will always be evil in the world.. When Merryn eventually confided in Ashley about what had happened, her friend was not surprised; in fact, the scene was depressingly familiar to her. He got us quiet and continued to get away with it. (Stacey Wescott / Chicago Tribune) During her quest,. 25 $. Erins Law encourages research based curriculum, Merryn said. (2013) 2019 TIME USA, LLC. Did you ever wonder, or ever ask him, why he did what he did? Survivors need to know they have nothing to be ashamed of. Do you know if it was as healing for him as it was for you? Then, Erin said she told her family too. She lives in Chicago with her husband and two daughters. These monsters are living in all of our backyards., (Tip: Offender Locator is a great app to have on your smart phone.). This decision has brought her on a crusade across America to pass what is known as Erin's Law. Caught you off guard? "I didn't understand what was going on," she says. Sponsored by Rep. Geran Tarr, D-Anchorage, HB 233 puts Alaska among the states considering "Erin's Law" in 2014. When I look at you, I see nothing but scum. Erin also included the correspondence between her cousin and herself, for readers to also hear the perpetrator's side. Merryn: I didn't expect a response back from my cousin because my letter was very harsh filled with so much anger and rage. As I describe in my books, that center was the foundation of my healing. He cornered her in basements, bathrooms and bedrooms, always reminding her that she shouldn't bother telling anyone because no one would believe her. [2] The family pressed charges, and the cousin eventually confessed to three counts of child sexual abuse. After her parents decided to move Erins abuse ended but only brought her that much closer to her next abuser, an older teenage cousin who lived down the street from her. He knows the parts covered by his underwear and bathing suit arent for anyone to touch or see and he knows who safe people are if he ever needs help with something. Nightmares. Merryn: What caused me to come forward was unfortunately finding out that my little sister was also being abused. Visiting Alaska this week, Erin Merryn is a long way from home, and even farther from the torturous past she endured as a sexually abused child. Merryn travels the country advocating for children who are victims of sexual assault. I tell parents the best way to talk to kids about this is through the swimsuit lesson, Merryn said. A therapist urged her to get her anger out on paper by writing her cousin a letter detailing how she felt, and after she wrote it, she was to rip it up, burn it or otherwise throw it away. (2016) Consider This Self - Author and Children's Advocate. Carrot has 281,000 instagram followers. Erin's Law is the first US child sexual abuse prevention education law requiring children be educated in schools. The ability to forgive both my abusers set me free and gave me my voice back and the strength to speak out for others. Sexually abused and raped from age 6-8 by an adult neighbor Erin was threatened to stay silent by her abuser. Thinking she had finally escaped the endless sexual abuse, Merryn, the keynote speaker at the Sept. 26 luncheon, was once again sexually abused by a cousin beginning at the age of 11 at a family home in Lake Geneva. When all you have ever been told by an abuser is to stay silent, no one will believe you, this is our secret, you learn to believe that, and (it) makes it extremely difficult to speak up about. When I was six years old, I was sexually abused at a neighbor's house. Merryn now. Erin Merryn, the bill's namesake and a survivor of sexual abuse, said she is frustrated by the governor's slow response to sign it into law. Behind those numbers are the faces of innocent children whose childhoods were shattered by actions of evil and sickness. Eventually though the conversation has to shift and that question that I will never forget. Why is it so difficult to talk about? "Erin's Law" is named after Schaumburg native and activist Erin Merryn. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual ab If someone ever does touch you in those areas, you tell immediately., Merryn suggests the books The Swimsuit Lesson and The Right Touch.. Every other headline horrifies the public with another predator taking not just advantage of a child but everything from a child. Young children tend to hear a lot of messages about avoiding interactions with people they don't know, when in reality they are far more likely to face harm from a relative or family friend. My abuse first happened at weeks shy of my seventh birthday by a neighbor it went on until age 8 and a half. "The new bill brings a mandate," Merryn said, "mandating that all (Illinois) schools--pre-school through 12th grade--must begin next fall teaching sexual-abuse prevention education in the schools." She was afraid she would be a burden to her cousin and that no one would believe her. But nothing prepared her for two traumatizing events that have turned Merryn, now 25, into an activist, determined to prevent the same thing from happening to other children. This went on for a month before police got involved. (Read why most child abuse goes unreported). Her older cousin sexually abused her from 11-13 years old. Child molestation is an epidemic that needs to end now. The man had threatened Merryn that hed hurt her more if she told anyone. Forgiveness set me free. But when it came to being sexually abused, there was nothing. I survived it and eventually learned how to thrive from it by breaking my silence and putting a face and voice on this silent epidemic. I feel it would have given me the voice that these men took from me. The two families have ceased having contact. After reading that letter, a switch flipped inside Erin. Then something happened that no one saw coming: he confessed. He was given probation and counseling., Forgiveness is what set me free, she said. Erin Merryn is the author of three books about surviving incest, including "Living for Today." She also speaks nationally on the subject. These can seem like powerful forces to go up against. So, she forgave him. Erin is now on a mission to persuade all 50 states to pass Erins Law, which mandates that all public schools use age-appropriate curricula to teach students how to tell on anyone who touches or attempts to touch their private parts. Before . As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with self-doubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her . I often say victims are those who are killed by their attackers. "Erin Merryn's Law," a bill that will create a task force to study child sexual abuse in West Virginia, passed the state Senate unanimously on Monday. Is there anything about your life circumstances that you think made you a target? She urged kids to come forward if they or someone they know is being sexually abused. Victims of abuse know their perpetrators 80% to 90% of the time, says David Finkelhor, director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire. So before CAC's a child brought to a police station could be filled with anxiety and fear that they are in trouble. According to Merryn, every school gets the option to pick a Erins Law program, and have an outside agency teach. With every passing week, and with every visit, Erin gets closer to her goal. Erin Merryn is author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. And it was at her house the very first overnight that I woke up to her uncle who lived in the home sexually abusing me, said Merryn. Alaska Dispatch: Resiliency can be an important factor in how well survivors of abuse cope and in whether they go on to lead a healthy, happy life. Erin has spoken at over 250 CAC events.In 2008 she began writing legislators to require personal body safety be taught to kids in school. How and when did you do it first? The Church Sex Abuse Scandals Around the World, Child-Abuse Case Reveals Vietnam's Lax Social Services, (Read why most child abuse goes unreported). Now, thanks to state Sen. Anthony R. Bucco, children of the Garden State may soon benefit from Merryns harrowing experience, knowledge and hope. Merryn didn't tell anyone until she was 13 and she suspected her sister was also being abused. "(It) brings me back to remembering being six-years-old being abused. Read more about Erins Law at www.erinslaw.org, or about Erin herself at www.erinmerryn.net. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual abuse. See her personal website at ErinMerryn.net Sexually abused and raped from age 6-8 by an adult neighbor Erin was threatened to stay silent by her abuser. The look in this mans eyes, the color shirt he was wearing and the last thing he said to me, Dont you dare tell anybody. Walking up to a door with so many racing thoughts afraid I was not going to be believed, wondering what I was going to be asked, and so ashamed to even think about sharing the dirty secrets. Erins Law has now going international with judge in Kerala India requiring Erins Law in the 2023-2024 school year. Have there been times in your life when haven't done well? In 2010, Merryn began a crusade to get Erin's Law passed across America. CAC The place Erin Merryn broke her silence The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County Illinois In 1998 seventy five thousand six hundred and forty seven abused children were seen in one hundred and thirty nine Children's Advocacy Centers in America. Innocence lost. I also give lots of insight and resources to parents in my third book An Unimaginable Act on warning sings to look for like bed wetting, wearing extra layers of clothes, avoiding a certain person, not wanting to be around them when they had no problem before, academic changes in school, depression, withdrawal, nightmares, aggression; acting out sexually, she said. It ended only after a chance conversation between Merryn and one of her sisters, who blurted out one day that their cousin Brian was "gross." All rights reserved. I found hope and healing there and people that believed me. Motel management is NOT obligated to tell guests sex offenders are next door. Erin Merryn testified Tuesday in an Ohio Senate committee about 'Erin's Law.' Seconds later his hand was down her pants. Families pressuring loved ones to stay quiet is not uncommon, but as I often like to tell survivors, by speaking up you are not only helping yourself heal; you will help save other children from experiencing this same horror at the hands of their abuser. I left all the fragmented sentences, misspelled words, because I wanted readers to hear the voice of a young child.. Do not use the phrases good touch and bad touch, says Merryn. Merryn: I cover these two words in my second book, "Living for Today." But Ashley begged her not to say anything because Richard had told her they would "lose the house" if the girls told anyone. We live in a society that keeps it hushed and (there is) so much taboo around it; people are afraid to speak up and say this happened to them. In just a few short years, she has already persuaded half the countryto pass similar versions of the law. I found (the) freedom and peace I had longed for. Statistics show that one in four girls and one in six boys will be sexually abused by the age of 18. Erin Merryn, Stolen Innocence: Triumphing Over a Childhood Broken by Abuse: A Memoir 0 likes Like "Brian, this letter is probably coming as a complete surprise to you, but I didn't feel I should warn you since you never warned me when you were going to use my body for own damn pleasures. Winds WNW at 10 to 15 mph.. Erin Merryn, 30, a child sexual abuse survivor and creator of the legislation, said schools generally fail to give young students adequate awareness and a voice on the issue of sexual abuse. One thing my abusers kept telling me was that I had no proof that they were hurting me, so why would anyone believe me? Donors may not deduct contributions made to Erins Law under IRC Section 170 (c) (2). Erin endured the abuse from age 6 to 8 and from 11 to 13 and felt the long-lasting effects of her guilt, shame and loss of innocence. Ensuring all New Jersey kids have access to age-appropriate sexual abuse prevention education will end the cycle of abuse before it begins. If you tell anybody, you will destroy our family, she said.. [3], "I was not educated on not keeping secrets if someone was hurting me. Confronting him empowered me and eventually allowed me to forgive him when he wrote a letter apologizing. Who were they? That is what brought Erin to tell her story at Metamora Township High School last Monday afternoon, during an all-school assembly. She is not ashamed of the sexual abuse she endured as a child and, instead, feels inspired to put a face and voice on childhood sexual abuse. I will fight alongside Erin and the advocates right here in our community until the day that this lifesaving legislation finally becomes law.. She has now dedicated her life to protecting our nations children. But instead of destroying it, she ended up emailing her five-page account of anger and rage to her cousin, who was now attending college. Read more about Erin Merryn on her Erin's Law Facebook page and her website. You have permission to edit this article. Call it what it is: penis and vagina.. On Thursday, Quinn signed "Erin's Law" at the Children's Advocacy Center of North and Northwest Cook County in Hoffman Estates. So be careful sending little Tommy for ice at the machine down the hall and inform teens who often book motels after prom. EN RU CN DE ES. She published a book called Bailey No Ordinary Cat that showcases Bailey's unusually gentle interactions with her three children. Illinois is the fifth state to pass Erin's Law since she took up the cause. ThediaryIkept my secrets locked away in, where I lost my innocence, I turned into a book mysenior year of high school called Stolen Innocence, because thats whathappened to me, Merryn said. Two of those children were my sister and I. Erin Merryn detailed the treatment and help she received from the Children's Advocacy Center, which has 900 locations across the U.S.A. - a safe environment for children to share their stories of abuse. See the sex abuse in Israel's ultra-orthodox community. Erin Merryn (born February 2, 1985) is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, An Unimaginable Act, Bailey No Ordinary Cat, and The Diary of a Cat Named Carrot. Known For. Info here from RAINNwww.rainn.org/news/president-signs-measures-support-state-action-prevent-and-address-child-sexual-abuseErin's media appearances have included Access Hollywood 2020Tamron Hall 2020HLN 2020CBS Morning Show 2019The Morning Blend 2019CNN 2018, HLN 2018, BUILD 2018 TLC Breaking the Silence Documentary TODAY show 2015, Nancy Grace 2015, ABC Nightline 2015, CNN 2015, Dr. Drew 2015, Inside Edition 2015, MSNBC 2015, Oprah Winfrey Network 2014, Windy City Live 2014, MSNBC 2013, FOX 2013, Katie Couric 2013, Oprah Life Class 2012, CNN 2012, Issues with Jane Velez Mitchell 2011, Oprah Winfrey Show October 2010, Montel Williams in April/July 2006, and Good Morning America in May 2006. The parents can then share the information that the schools provided with anyone else in their household. Erin Merryn (born February 2, 1985) is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, An Unimaginable Act, Bailey No Ordinary Cat, and The Diary of a Cat Named Carrot. Realizing I was not a fault and learning to let go of the guilt. Alaska's version of Erin's Law is currently under consideration by the Alaska State Legislature as House Bill 233. "He told me, just like in the past by this other perpetrator, 'Erin, this is our . He was the father of my best friend. The shame is so overwhelming. Merryn says a few months ago, a local . The cousin used the same tactic as her first abuser telling her no one would believe her and there was no proof. She knew exactly what she was doing by asking simple questions on my life, friends, what I did for fun, and my family. So I stayed silent. Erin, now a 33-year-old wife and mother of two with one on the way, has spent the last eight years travelling to every state advocating for abused children. In April, 2010, Illinois State Senator Tim Bivins agreed to meet with Erin and he became the first state legislator to sponsor Erins Law. Since that first meeting, Erin has met with hundreds of state legislators, testified dozens of times in front of State Senate and House committees, served on several committees to draft bills and implement the new laws, plus speaks regularly to schools, agencies, conferences and media nationwide. The law was passed in a number of states,[7] with New York becoming the 37th in 2019. These days hes almost 9 and I dont really tag along to play dates anymore, but every time I drop him off, I tell him, if you have to use the bathroom, lock the door and have privacy. He'd conditioned and kept me silent for two years, so he knew he could get away with that behavior, even with so many people around. The next day they told their parents. And it was at her house the very first overnight that I woke up to her uncle who lived in the home sexually abusing me," said Merryn. Has anything particularly heartened you? Read more Erin Merryn is a 21-year-old college sophomore who wrote a book, "Stolen Innocence: Memoir," about her struggles after she claims she was molested by her first cousin. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual abuse. She earned a master's degree from Aurora University in social work. Named by PEOPLE Magazine a HEROES Among us and one of fifteen women changing the world. Names were the only thing she changed. Jill Burke is a former writer and columnist for Alaska Dispatch News. I remember being so utterly confused.. I remember immediately after answering the interviewer I said "That's the reason I didn't tell before, I kept it to myself because I thought no one would believe me." This representative did get on her mic. In the end, he was given seven years of probation, 1,000 hours of community service, he attended a two-year sex offender program, and couldnt come within 100 feet of Erin or her sister. Bucco introduced Erins Law (S-2145) on May 2. No one is allowed in the bathroom with you not even your friend. I was a senior in high school when I published my first book, my childhood diary where I kept my secrets of abuse with my cousin locked away. Merryn advocates for sexual abuse victims. She told them that, growing up in Illinois, she had experienced tornado drills, fire drills and bus drills; was taught about stranger danger and eight ways to say no to drugs through D.A.R.E., but no one ever taught her how to protect herself from sexual abuse and what to do if a family member or friend molested or raped her. I am so confident I will get this law passed in all 50 states, because God has already told me it will happen. Today there are more then 700 Children Advocacy Centers in America and millions of children have walked through those doors.Before there were CAC's children were interviewed numerous times in places such as police stations. A place I went to with my eleven year old sister and mother. Are you afraid you will lose business? The only difference is now I am running from him in my dreams" (Merryn 49). [3], She graduated from Schaumburg High School in 2004[4] and earned a Bachelor of Social Work from Western Illinois University in 2008. The book is titled "Stolen Innocence." He sat down in front of Merryn and put his finger to his lips signaling her to remain quiet. Erin said the abuse stopped after her sister spoke up about her own abuse. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. I was abused. This fundraiser is organized by Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation (Caase). Only this time, the person behind it was her older cousin, a nice young man with a bright future to whom she looked at as the brother she never had.. The words of my cousin began haunting me. Visit sheriffalerts.com to find out if there are sex offenders in your area. In the wee hours of the night, Ashley's uncle "Richard" (not his real name), who lived in the house with his niece, appeared in the darkened room. Silence Broken and Stigmas Shattered -- Help for Incest Survivors Is Here Fans of Erin Merryn's heart-wrenching debut memoir Stolen Innocence were left wondering at the end what would become of an emotionally fragile Erin after her confrontation with the reality of being a child of incest and molestation. Check out Erins third book, An Unimagiable Act. This book describes Erins journey across America to get Erins Law passed and resources for survivors, parents, and educators. I can remember that as if it happened yesterday. 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